Thursday’s Children August 1, 2013

Inspired by Sand Dollars…

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MORE sand dollars?” My husband’s tone asked its own question (“Have you lost your mind?”).

“Why do you need to bring so many?” My older daughter squiggled her eyebrows.

“I don’t know. I just do.”

“Can I give some to Anne?” Anne was her best friend.

“Um…” I didn’t want to part with a single one. “Yeah, I’ll pick out a few for her.” I chose five of the most mundane, set them aside, and continued to swaddle the remaining delicate wafers in layers of tissue before tucking them into various containers.

I’m not sure how many minutes, or even hours, I spent packing my collection, knowing their fragility would be a poor match for the thousand mile truck ride from Maine to North Carolina. In the last few weeks before our move, my sand dollar-hunting gained urgency. If I spied one, I couldn’t leave it on the sand. After every walk my jacket pockets were damp and sagging with loot. Once home, I laid them on towels. Only after they were dry could I rid them of the sand trapped inside by tapping them ever so gently. Did you know sand dollars have a mouth, and a um, “butt”?

Sand dollars

My obsession was rooted in panic over leaving Maine, and the beach.

Understanding the source of an obsession doesn’t loosen its grip.

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I opened the boxes and containers a couple of days ago. As you can see, not all of their contents survived the trip.

My sadness was fleeting because when I lifted the lids, ocean scent rushed out to kiss me.

Do you collect anything from Nature that has special meaning for you? 

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Thursday’s Children June 27, 2013

Inspired by Houses New and Old…

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It struck me while writing a welcome note for the new owners, to go with a bottle of wine and trio of sand dollars…

Leaving a house you’ve built and turned into a home is a bit like turning a completed book over to readers. They’ll inhabit the rooms you’ve created, survey the views you’ve designed, follow the pathways of the floorplan. But, they’ll bring their own personalities to those spaces, which will make their experience of the home different. They’ll arrange their own furniture, they may even repaint. Their new favorite spots might not have been yours. They MIGHT even build on or renovate… Your old home isn’t really yours any more, it’s theirs.

Now I have a new project, a blank page of a home with bland American cheese-colored walls, builder lighting fixtures, and curtainless windows. We’ve determined the purpose of each room, placed some of the bigger pieces of furniture, figured out how to operate most of the appliances. Now we’re contemplating paint colors. We’ve got to turn this place into an enjoyable, exciting and functional home with good flow. It’s not unlike writing a book…

Photo by R. Wynn-Nolet

Photo by R. Wynn-Nolet

Do you like decorating new spaces or beginning a new manuscript? Do you find it exciting or daunting?

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Thursday’s Children June 13, 2013

Inspired by Packing Up…

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As most of you know, I’m moving next week. I can still barely believe we’re leaving Maine and New England, where I’ve lived almost my whole life. It isn’t that I haven’t moved before. There was suburban Massachusetts, Cape Cod, Boston, Portsmouth, New Hampshire and then Kennebunkport, Maine. But this is different, it’s a move to an unfamiliar place with real professional movers whose fee is based not only on distance, but also on how much the truck weighs.

Killing my darlings.

The process of sorting and packing isn’t unlike editing and revising. Things come to light that I’d completely forgotten. Holding certain items in my hands, I can’t believe I ever liked them. Other times, it’s like seeing a beloved friend and having a silent conversation about a certain period of my life.

Which items are worth their weight? Which aren’t? Which deserve a place in my “new” story? 

Some pieces can be re-purposed, fit into a different space where they will shine. But not always. The losers end up in our yard sale. It’s always entertaining to see which objects catch the attention of strangers and find their way into a new story. Still others blow their second chance and go to the Goodwill store where there’s a larger audience. As for the true rejects, well, it’s a tragic ending.

Have you moved a lot during your life? Have you made big moves or small ones?

And because I can’t think of a better occasion to enjoy some Mr. Bean humor…

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